Imagine before you a criminal and during your conversation with him or her, they become anger or upset and complains to you of something you said. What you did or said was reasonable based on truth or fact. You were respectful in how you spoke to this person and had no anger toward him or her, yet this criminal became upset at you claiming you were wrong.
Having heard his or her complaint, do you feel guilty or remorseful? Have you felt wrong and thought or feared that you may have gone wrong somewhere, then maybe feel the need to withdraw?
